id like opinons on what people think is more of a private experience, a woman in the delivery room having a baby or a man standing over the toilet, holding his penis in his hands urinating out a kidney stone?
I’ve been seeing an older guy for a few months now, he has been married before and has a few kids. well, he’s actually had kids with 3 different women. With me being in my mid 20′s and him being, well 52, it seems like its wrong, but it doesnt feel wrong. His two oldest daughters are my age and I spend a lot of time with the other, we hang out quite a bit cause we’re similar and share the same interests and get along well. I get along with all of his kids, I actually like having kids around and cant wait to have my own! There are several positives to dating an older man. My friends dont think it makes much sense because its not the type of guy in the looks dept that i would normally go for. I actually think he looks older than his age, but its because of his beard, which has a little grey in it. He’s probably not as healthy as young guy my age, maybe not as hot either, but is more responsible and caring. His only major health problem is kidney stones. I know he said he’s passed over 15 stones and he has passed 1 since ive been dating him. He said doctors dont really know why he keeps getting them, he’s changed his diet, drinks more water and stuff, but still ends up peeing out a kidney stone every once in awhile. I really like this man and want to have a baby with him.
my dad is 54, his current gf who is about a month pregnant is 24 and i do see wedding bells for them down the road. since he turned 50, he divorced his 2nd wife and really begun dating women between 20 and 25! he got two of them pregnant, while at the same time his health was tipping. when he turned 50, he found he had diabetes and was suffering from bph enlarged prostate which he still does today, not to mention high cholesterol, a gallstone and a his share of kidney stones and high blood pressure. i remember him not really having a best diet, no fruit, rarely drank water either. in his mid 30′s he passed his 1st kidney stone & said it was an eye opener, but continued to get them through the years and still not do much about it. how does an older guy like with the health problems get all the young hot women? do women care whether or not the guy they’re having a baby with as all of these health problems? thats he passed his share of kidney stones? my mom said he probably yelled or screamed when the stone came out of his "you know?" and said its just like having a baby for a man. wouldnt all of the stone affect sexual performance for a man? i just cant imagine having a pee out a solid, hard rock through my johnson, let alone having my young hot gf hear me scream from it!
I’m just curious because my friend thinks the kidney stone would be worse but she’s never had a baby so I wanna know what you guys think if you’ve been thru both. Thanks!
