Comments on: im in a really bad spot. i fell in love with a girl that never felt anything for me. how do i get past it?

By: the text book

the text book — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 17:50:24 +0000

too long, i refuse to read, but in response to your initial question, welcome to life

By: luvmygirl

luvmygirl — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 17:50:24 +0000

tell her how you feel usually that will lessen your load

By: This Is My Name

This Is My Name — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 17:50:24 +0000

thats a lot to read man… the most common term is the truest, more fish in the sea. all you have to do is meet someone on a common basis and get into a mutual conversation and get to know them.. then you begin to think about them more and more… thats how you got in the situation in the first place.. which only proves that it can happen again, but the next time it happens you will be able to tell if you are actually connecting with someone or not because of your past experience. then you will really know love, when someone feels the same way you do and there are no secrests… blah blah blah…. move on is the point of all this

By: octicarus88

octicarus88 — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 17:50:24 +0000

it helps when you listen to a song that goes with the memory, its kinda therapeutic and it helps you move on from Scene I.

give this song a listen..if you havent heard of it.
Three Days Grace – I Hate Everything About You

By: Cris

Cris — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 17:50:24 +0000

there’s plenty of other girls out there that you have to find. you deserve someone that loves themselves and loves you too. as for the healing process, just keep yourself busy and little by little you’ll start to think of her less.

By: gladiatorghost007

gladiatorghost007 — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 17:50:24 +0000

Man, when I read this I started crying. I went through almost the same thing except she was in love with someone else. But I felt the same way and had those kind of dreams about her. Took me about two year to get over her. You know what helps, ‘outta sight, outta mind’. If you don’t see her, you will forget her. Just avoid seeing her at all cost, it’ll take months maybe a 1 or 2 year to forget. But you’ll find someone even more beautiful and this time she won’t let you go.

By: The

The — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 17:50:24 +0000

Hey man I know how you feel. I was with a girl for 3 years, asked her to marry me and she accepted. After a year of being engaged, she just suddenly one day said she felt differently and broke up with me. I was devastated, to the point where I had to start taking anti-depressants. As far as I was concerned, my life was over. It took over a year and a half before I got over her. As you are going through it, it seems as though it will never end but believe me it does. As hard as it is, you just got to hang in there, nothing but time will heal it. Want some really good advice? It might be extremely difficult but if you want to get over her, you have to COMPLETELY cut her out of your life.

By: Dsfa A

Dsfa A — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 17:50:24 +0000

Did you like that vent? cause i liked that story! i can empathize with you greatly, i’m glad to know that you know she is not the right person to fall in love with, perhaps you were only deepy in love with her looks? I feel bad that your cousin didn’t tell you sooner, i wish the best of luck to you! like you said, you can’t get over it in one night. it’ll take time, your only human.